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1. You will understand yourself better 2. You will learn how to handle your doubts and make your thinking more productive. Sadly, we get used to not talking to our husband or wife. We get used to the idea that our life is just the way it is. Getting used to things is our mind’s Continue reading Relationship doubts, struggles, frustrations
When relationships die, break up happens all by itself. But, if you fix your relationship, then you will be relieved that you didn’t break up. Negative circumstances are best handled with positive actions. If you are doing poorly in school, is a positive action to get extra help or to quit school? If you Continue reading Break up? Why it’s not the right answer for you
How do you create a heart-centered connection with someone close to you? I think the best way to do it is to let the other person see you naked. I don’t mean this in the physical sense, but in the emotional-spiritual sense. As you converse with the other person, talk about your career; then let it Continue reading Connecting From the Heart My wife Patty Gates-Firehammer is a love consultant. She’s really good at it! I can’t tell you how often she comes home and says, “I ran into so and so today and she said, oh Patty am I glad to see you, so and so and I haven’t been getting along very well I’m Continue reading Why We Suck at Relationships Ask, Reflect, Verify, Understand, Accept Five simple words are the key to getting along in any relationship. The key to Intimacy or In-To-Me-See. It all starts with asking. Asking: Ask other people how they perceive you and encourage them to ask you how you perceive them. Reflect: Repeat back in your own words Continue reading How to Not Suck At Relationships I can demonstrate 2 things; That there are kinds of differences between people that produce specific and predicable kinds of conflict. That these conflicts occur mostly because we aren’t aware of the difference as the underlying cause. A system that can present to you the information that represents those differences, in effect gives you Continue reading Relationships and Uncertainty I make a living spending my working hours helping people to be more effective in the way they strategize and use technology to achieve their goals. But I consider my life’s work helping people to get over tragically limiting relationship beliefs like; Relationships are hard. No exceptions. End of story! Relationships require tremendous personal Continue reading Everyone Knows a Shelley I was watching “Bones” the other night and Dr. Sarouhan said this to Agent Seely Booth,
Tamara Taylor, Dr. Sarouhan on "Bones"
David Boreanaz, Special Agent Seeley Booth on "Bones" “The definition of insanity, is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome.” In Continue reading Our Approach to Relationships: Insanity? Pardon the Play on Words! I couldn’t resist. The point I want to make is that irreconcilable differences do exist, but often what seems irreconcilable is actually reconcilable when at least these things are true. If the difference is an invisible one plus you’re aware of it and what it represents in terms of Continue reading Talking the “Ir” Off Irreconcilable Differences |
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